Monday, September 12, 2016

slings and arrows

Can anyone really win in the midst of a argument?  Especially if heated and hated words are exchanged. The hurt can go so deep no one wins.  Would it not be better to agree to disagree and then part ways?

Occasionally in my work I encounter such bitterness. This time siblings whose relationship has turned into absolute contempt for each other.  Relaying there disagreements between their attorneys.  I have now entered the picture and the best I can do is stay above the fracas and not allow their nastiness to influence me. 
Too much energy goes into this kind of hate.  There is and never will be a winner.  The RWS card has the image of walking away when you get involved in a no win situation.  I wonder why these two didn't and I wonder if I should.




GAIAN TAROT -Joanna Powell Colbert

6 comments:

  1. My cousin is involved in one of those. One of the daughters is not cashing better than a quarter million in checks, holding up the closing of the estate. Because she feels the accounting does not include being reimbursed for a number of items she proved... 4 or 5 things all under a dollar.

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    1. That's part of it. He doesn't want anything more to do with his sister, for whatever and she wants to make him pay. The last connection between the two are a house on either side of the river.

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  2. Those kind of situations are tough to be in; someone always tries to get you on their side. Don't take the bait and stay out of the drama if you can!

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    1. That is what they are doing. They both want to be right. I am staying out of the fray like the eagle flying in.

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  3. I think the wisest thing to do is to shield you from this negative energy if you're able too and I sincerely hope you are. Walking away might be diffucult since I assume they are clients of you???
    Hugs

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    1. That's the hard part. Their negative energy wants to cling. I am going to try and stay above their nastiness. They are stuck on a few thousand dollars on the resale but will pay their attorneys ten thousand dollars just to be right.

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