Thursday, February 16, 2017

Stepping out

Right of passage.

This morning I am going to look at a couple of apartments with my niece.  She is ready to move out of her parents home and find her own place. This card is kind of appropriate .  Leaving the city behind and finding our way out in the big world.  Hold on tight because it gets bumpy from here on out.

Little bit later.  The couple of places we looked at I don't think will work, she agreed with me on one.  The other looks new and a bit upscale, but the space is not functional.  I advised her to view a few more.  I must remind myself it is her decision; not be too much of a negative nelly or she will quit asking for my input and then I will be left holding my opinions, for all they are worth.






Rider Waite Smith Tarot

5 comments:

  1. It is so hard to walk that fine line between giving them advice and pushing them to do things your way. You did very well today :)

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    1. This girl takes after her aunt Carolyn. She won't be pushed too hard one way or the other. Me, I will tell you to back off, her she will shut down and the silence is deafening.

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  2. She's lucky to have someone with experience show her what is available and offer suggestions. It's hard to have big dreams and a small pocketbook sometimes!

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    1. She is appreciative of help and advise, only to a certain point. I always remind her it's her decision. It's her turn on the Wheel of Life.

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    2. Reminds me of my first flat not functional at all but the exterior and the location! If renting doesn't matter too much. Buying a different matter altogether!...She is lucky to have you :)

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