I never had a plus one in my life; I gave it less than a half-hearted attempt maybe once or twice. I just never could comprehend spending the remainder of my days, whether fifty years or five with one person. Yes, the loneliness can at times be consuming, but there have been compensations. Family and friends, books and adventures, and now Kitty, have been my companions through my days, I am okay with that. Life never came with a guarantee.
"One never knows how much of the journey will be alone." - Arushka, The Romanoffs, Season One, Episode One
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I know many people who have companions rather than spouses and pets rather than a committed relationship. One type of relationship won't work for everyone. I know Kitty is glad to have you!
ReplyDeleteMany with human spouses shave never had a Plus One. Maybe more than are Ones. You know what drives me crazy? Rob being gone most of our marriage, I've had a number of restaurant meals by myself. The Seater, who invariable said 'Just One?' or 'Only you?' No one is ever Only, Just...
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DeleteRob was on the road all those years. Now he is home asking you what he should make for dinner.
DeleteNo one is only "one" so many more in our lives.
I do love "Party of One?". :)
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