Enough I say!

I will go this far and no further.

Have you ever noticed that a person or peoples can really appreciate your original and unique personage, thought, or dress and then in in earnest they set out to change you, so you can conform.  The old mirror and match mentality.  Oh how we like people to be just like ourselves.  Boring. 

"You first took a little step off the path to avoid some rocks. For a while, you walked along the path but then you wandered out a little way to step on softer soil. Then you stopped paying attention as you drifted farther and farther away. Finally, you found yourself in the wrong city wondering why the signs on the roadway hadn't led you better."  Bradon Sanderson quoted from The Emperor's Soul