Disagreement

I am discovering that most disagreements these days are with myself.  In that discovery I have to acknowledge that a fair amount of disagreements throughout my life then, must have been with myself.  Decide is my 'Word of the Year' and I have figured out before I 'Decide' I need to figure out who I really am. If I decide based on old outdated programming and mis-information, the outcome will not be what is needed, expected, or hoped for. 
'let it go' is an over used euphemism, for easier said than done.