When making a decision I can ask others their opinions but ultimately I decide. I find that so many people want someone else to make the decision for them, so they don't have to take responsibility for their lives. Sure there are times that someone else has to step in, but for the most part the decisions are and should be our own. If not sure, I sit with myself and within a short time the answer will present itself to me. Working with the Tarot and Oracles gives me focus and that helps. I am thinking of the Magician who has all she/he needs on his table in the form of the elements and so to, we have all that we need, we just have to look within. I think I will wear something in green today.
I think you are right about people not wanting to take responsibility. Could be they've made so many bad choices in the past, they are afraid of making any for the future.
ReplyDeleteExactly, but then they blame the decision maker for all their troubles and then it can get nasty.
DeleteI was used to share responsibility for years with my husband and it took me also quite some years to get comfortable again to make big decisions on my own.
ReplyDeleteI was always the decision maker in the family. After my Dad had to start working out of town, Mother was at a loss, so I stepped in. Tough for a 13 year old girl, but that's a Capricorn for you. All my younger sibs hated me. Most of the time I didn't mind until someone says you always decide. Now I am pretty much on my own so life and choices are easier.
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